More about Tiger Mom & Kids

I did a feture story for The Star (29 June 2011) about the Malaysian Tiger Mom and her twin cubs.
Here's the link where you can read the story -
http://parenthots.com/features/Raising-purr-fect-kids.aspx

Tiger Wives, East & West

After all the news about Tiger Moms, recent headlines have been hogged by Tiger Wives!

So, Wendi Deng is now the subject of tweets in the world of twitter….where snide remarks and wisecracks are aplenty….Examples, apparently from the West, are: Time to get a Chinese wife, not only can she help build your business empire (alluding to biz in China), she can be a Tiger Mom (alluding to Amy Chua) to bring up your children, and even double as your body guard!” and "Marry a kungfu bella!"

Wendy has lots of credentials, a smart cookie no doubt. She was born in Shandong (tall and strong), went to study in the US at age 19, got her business degree from Yale, moved on to work in HK, where she caught the eye of her then big boss, Rupert Murdoch. The rest is history….

After the valiant and gallant act of protecting her doddering hubby from a foam pie, a British MP remarked that she has a great left hook. But no, it wasn’t a left, it was in fact a right hook…or more precisely, a right-hand slap, accurately and speedily delivered by an accomplished ex-volley ball player from China, no less! J

Wendi’s sensational and meteoric rise to media stardom reminds us of other Tiger Wives of Western origin: Carla, First Lady of France; Cherie, wife of Tony Blair; Anne, wife of the infamous IMF ex-CEO Strauss-Kahn; and last but not least Melania, wife of Donald Trump with her famous words:  “I have a big boy, Donald, and a little boy, Baron. I take care of both very well.”  That sums up what a Tiger Wife is….as The Daily Telegraph said, The Tiger Wives’ Club is small….she knows that her spouse is less than he seems, and she, in fact, is rather more. She’s plucky; he’s lucky. J 

NOT suicide, NOT homicide... Now it is suicide

Logically, if a person is found to have died of an “unnatural” cause, what can it be if it’s neither suicide nor homicide? How about accident? If someone threatens you, pushes you towards an open window, where you lose your balance and fall through by “accident” and die, is this homicide? No? At least it is a case of manslaughter? No? How about using one of Simon Winchester’s favorite words” chance-medley”?

The following paragraph caught my attention when I was reading Winchester’s book “The Professor and the Madman”, not least because I was so intrigued and upset by the two cases of bizarre death – for want of a better description --at MACC office. 

According to Simon Winchester: “… chance medley is a wonderful legal word – the language of law offers up a profusion of delights – is ancient (first seen in 1494) and is defined as an

accident or casualty not purely accidental, but of a mixed character.

Chiefly in manslaughter by chance-medley (for which later writers have used chance-medley itself): “the casual killing of a man, not altogether without the killer’s fault, though without an evil intent; homicide by misadventure…….”

My questions are: Shouldn’t someone be held culpable for a chance-medley? The Bar Council claims that the foreign forensic expert did not conclude that Teoh Beng Hock committed suicide. So, it was RCI who made this conclusion, but substantiated by what evidence? Will there be another RCI for the case of Ahmad Sarbani Mohamed? I am waiting with bated breath….

Dr. Sun Yat Sen a U.S. Citizen?!

Oh My God! The Founding Father of Republican China (國父　孫中山先生)was a U.S. citizen! This is really interesting and intriguing news.

According to recent news reports, The American Institute in Taiwan will, for the first time, on 4^th July, make public an official document to prove that Sun Yat-sen was a U.S. citizen. 

This official document was issued in 1904, at a time when Sun Yat-sen was actively campaigning to call on all overseas Chinese to overthrow the Qing Dynasty. However, whenever he tried to enter into the U.S. for this campaign via San Francisco, he was continuously being blocked and harassed by the Customs & Immigration officials. To facilitate his multiple entries into the country, the U.S. government released documents to prove that Sun Yat-sen was born in Hawaii, and therefore he was a U.S. citizen; and that he was only temporarily residing in China. Actually from history, we all know that Sun was born in Zhongshan county of Guangdong Province, China. This fact is NOT disputable. However, he did spend some years in Honolulu when he was a teen and studied in Iolani School and Oahu College (now known as Punahou High School.) BTW, Obama also spent a few years as a student at Punahou.   

After a long history of animosity and distrust towards the Americans, today, the Father of Republican China is revealed to be a U.S. citizen, and just as China is celebrating the centennial of the Red Revolution. This new revelation is best considered a beautiful joke in history, but it is quite certain that the angry youths of this huge nation are not likely to be amused by this “announcement”.